The Elves of Tallarn carry a strange heritage. The sex ratio is a bit off: five males are born for every girl that sees the light of day. To those unfamiliar, this may not be apparent though, as the effeminate elven side is more pronounced here, resulting in many of the men having a female appearance.
Men are referred to as either Kian or Kiannae. Kian have a classically more masculine look, Kianne with a more feminine or androgenous look. True ladies are called Aroi. In outsider term, it is just He and She as “primitive other languages do not reflect the finer nuances of Elven Language.”
The society does strictly distiguish between male and female endeavours - males learn the crafts, farming, and the art of war; while the females are the carriers of culture, learning history and making up the vast majority of the priesthood, teaching and so on. Some Kiannae fill in minor positions of the female professions.
Art and magic are open to both, though a noticeable percentage of Kian lacks magical aptitude. Many Kiannae are magically or artistically apt.
The imbalance has led to peculiar courting customs: several Kian and Kiannae circling every lady showering her with praise and gifts. Many of the men who fail to find a female often end up in the arms of other men. These “other men” are usually Kiannae.
Note: It is socially “taboo” for two Kian (or two Kiannae) to get together.
Thus many of the males Kiannae have a very feminine look, attemping to attract companionship. Some of it is genetic. Some of it is appearance and grooming. Kiannae mostly dress androgenously. However they will, from time to time, dress in a distinctively female manner. As a point of fact, Kiannae are effectively “non competitive” in the quest for real female mates, as they are not as “manly” as Kian. That is okay. In point of fact, most Kiannae prefer men.
Additional Information
The Elves do not speak of the divisions. It is a taboo subject, impolite to talk about.
Since Kian and Kiannae is a personal decision, it is “wrong” to say someone IS one of the other unless they have told you what they think they are.
Gender pronouns are assigned by how one is dressed. However, only in the most extreme cases will an Aroi be called He (usually requiring her to be in a non female role).
Kiannae and Kian might be interested in members of other races, but Kiannae avoid that… as it could lead to complications (unless that member is appropriately orriented).
Expanded from EchoMirage’s Idea
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December 17, 2005, 19:18
Every gamer has gone trough the "Are the elves gay or what?" phase in their time, but nobody mentions it. Except perhaps, as a joke. About time the subject is taken seriously.
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January 22, 2009, 13:21
Still a lot of fun.
April 17, 2006, 0:28
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March 9, 2007, 12:19
It also helps address the question of how elves regulate their numbers with their tremendous lifespans: If many of the elvish couples are not actually a male with a female, that would reduce reproduction to a fraction of what it otherwise could be.
March 11, 2007, 0:11
Thought they could possibly magic their way into a more feminine shape. Of course, to the Elves that would probably be as noticable as a breast augmentation and plastic surger to us in 21st century America.
October 13, 2007, 17:50
Also, I can't really see Kiannae having female bone structure because most of it's differences from male bone structure are there to facilitate childbirth. And I really don't want to think about Kiannae with breasts. It's disturbing.
October 14, 2007, 0:33
This view of things can make many people uncomfortable. And that is okay.
Just some FYI. About the pelvis, it is actually one of the 101 common human mutations for a male to have wider, but not as wide, pevlic angle (or females to have a slightly narrower one) And don't get me started on "man breasts". These mutations, which occur in the one per five thousand or so, could be more prevolent in their gene pool. Besides, given their slight "less manliness" they might be more likely to become Kiannae (which is a choice) because they know how unlikely it will be for them to achieve vs the more handsom suitors.
However, as I see it, most of their femme appearance is mostly cosmetic: carefully choosen clothes and actions. Some corsetting might be possible (google wasp waist). Given the prevolence in their culture, everything needed to "help" a kiannae will already be available.
Given the nature of things in Elven society, there may be minor magics in the "common spell book" that alter things some, or a simple glamour.
October 14, 2007, 0:34
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December 31, 2007, 10:29
Also, thanks to Moon for saving some of my ancient writings and improving upon them. Thumbs up for Moon.
January 1, 2008, 6:27
Like when that Elven beauty a PC group is adventuring with, and all the men secretly lust after, is revealed to be man, or something like that...
January 2, 2008, 16:38
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January 21, 2009, 22:48
"Ah, I dunno Steve, this place is pretty hard to find your way aroun- hey, wait, a local! Excuse me, ma'am?"
"What? I'm a guy, asshole."
"Oh, really? Sorry, sorry. Okay, miss, what about you? Could you give us directions?"
"Uh, NO. I'm also a man. Jeepers, you're rude."
"Well, at least you're nicer than the first guy..."
"You called HIM a girl? My honey?"
"Oh- oh gods, I think I just puked a little. Christ, is ANYONE around here what they appear to be!? YOU!!!"
"Yes?"
"WHAT THE HELLS ARE YOU!?"
"Oh, me? I'm a girl."
"Ugh, about time I found someone who looked like a chick and WAS one.... Uh, what's up with the fan-club?"
"Oh, them? They're just trying to figure out which one gets to sleep with me."
"Uh-huh. Well, have fun with that. I'm sick of this damn place. Screw you guys, I'm going someplace NORMAL."
January 22, 2009, 13:27
The catch to this, is that they would roll their eyes or giggle slightly at your barbarian stupidity, but would continue on with the apparent gender. They don't talk about it, it would be like comparing the size of sexual organs... not something done in public.
So they would smooth it over quietly and laugh at you behind your back. After all, if you want to look feminine and attract men and the barbarians think you are female, you must be doing something right.
They might even correct you, telling you to use the correct pronouns or possessives in the langauge being used (Why does Elvish has three words for woman? Him, Her, Hir? aaarrrhhhhh).
It is not until you get used to Elves and get in one of their circle of friends that you are ever going to figure this out.
January 22, 2009, 19:32
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April 30, 2009, 23:06
However, I like to think that a smack across the face with a few Space Marines or Imperial Guard regiments solve the problem quite nicely, if you catch my drift. :)
May 1, 2009, 12:20