Thank you everyone for your comments and helping me see my mistakes, I could sit here and tell you that I was tired or didnt know what to say when I was writting this, but Im not the one for excuses, I was lazy really, Once again thank you. Go to Comment
In this culture it is not wise to talk too much good things about anything - especially children,lest some evil spirit steals it. So it is customary to say it is ugly and weak and will surely not survive. Also:
"The man who boasts of his young woman is a fool,
The man who boasts of his wares will get rich."